南乡子
                                           ——观友择偶感

                             风情动数番，
                             思前虑后事可怜。
                             择尽好枝不肯栖，
                             冤冤，
                             如今反为难上难。

                             春老泪轻弹，
                             不正三观是孽缘。
                             物是人非鸳鸯散，
                             天天，
                             独将悔恨闺窗前。